Longer Incubation Periods

On Thursday Morning, I was fortunate enough to sit down with Alan Webber over an early morning coffee, who founded Fast Company over a decade ago.

We were talking about some of the skills young people should have in order to launch successful ventures.

Alan noted that while someone is trying to get a startup going there are often two competing needs: The need to make enough to pay the bills and the need to invest a lot of hours to get an idea off the ground. In order to circumvent these challenge he suggested that people learn how to quickly make money on the side, like doing social media consulting on the side for older people who don’t understand for $50 an hour. In launch Fast Company he and his co founder launched a side business called Fast Company Knowledge Exchange or FCKE to finance their work getting their business going.

While I agree that is a very good skill and may be something Force For the Future needs to develop, it’s not the best solution if we want to maximize for impact. Let me draw an analogy from nature. Humans have the biggest brains of any creature that has walked the earth. We also have one of the longest maturation periods of any animal. The more space in the formative years you give an organism to develop the greater it’s potential. That’s what society should be doing, providing longer intellectual incubation periods for its young people. Universities occupy the space where this is supposed to happen yet most young people are at school just because it feels like what they are supposed to do. And they get out of school take an average job, get used to the money and sacrifice their dreams.

The best time to do a startup is in that period of 18-23. You’ve got the least to lose, are capable of functioning autonomously in the adult world and succeed or fail, it’s an amazing learning experience that will push you into a world of possibility, with plenty of interesting opportunities for your next job/venture whatever it may be.

Here I’ll let Seth Berger, who founded And1 while he was in college, do the rest of the talking for me again (besides you probably didn’t read my other posts anyway), because I’m tired of seeing college students go down the corporate route, flush their dreams down the toilet and never leave because double quilted TP is too nice a luxury to sacrifice.

Q: As a successful entrepreneur, what advice do you have for students who are interested in starting a business?

Berger:  Start a business before you go get a job. Here is the reason. If you go get a job, you are going to succeed…. If you come out and work, what are you going to make? 50K to start? You tell me.

So let’s say you are 21 and you get out of school making $60,000. You do real well and three years later they say, “I am going to send you back to grad school. I am going to pay for you. Then, come back to work. When you come back you are making $175,000.” Five years after that, you are going to be making a half million bucks. You are going to have a husband or a wife, two kids, nice car, summer home, country club. At what point are you going to say, “I am going to go start my own company.”? The answer is never.

What you will do is work until you have made enough money, somewhere in your 50s, to go do something you really want to do, instead of now, when you are broke…. When I got out of graduate school and I drove a Honda Civic Hatchback. I was broke. I didn’t care. It just didn’t matter. But once you get used to the good life, you won’t go back. So if you are thinking about starting a business, start the day you graduate. You don’t need experience. You don’t need money. You don’t need someone else to tell you that you can do it. Just go start it before you get used to making all that money.


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If You’re Successful Once, Please Don’t Check Out

Most people are going to disagree with me here, but I find it sad that Seth Berger checked out after finishing with AND1.  I think having kids was the culprit for the decrease in desire, and this case isn’t the exception.

“Knowledge@Wharton: Clearly you have experienced a lot of success in a very competitive industry. If you were to start another company today, what would it be?

Berger:  [laughs]. I don’t know. I really don’t think I would do that actually. We sold the business in 2005. I’ve got three young kids. I have been coaching high school basketball. I’ve had three or four opportunities to do really cool things; each time I have decided that the time with my kids and the time that I am spending with the kids from my high school, because I coach them six months during the year, are more valuable than starting another business.”

Someone with that kind of innovative spirit and proven ability to make things happen needs to be in the business of making things happen for a lifetime, with a few long vacations interspersed between projects.  What caused him to check out was having kids. I’ve heard having kids triggers some biological mechanism to slow down and stop thinking big. I would urge successful people to be weary of having kids. I honestly don’t know if you can both raise a family and make something big happen. If decide to you, you must be ready to model other people who have made it work. Especially if you consider the fact that if they don’t continue to try to make a difference in the world we might not have a world where any humans can have kids soon because we won’t exist. Wozniak checked out too.

Do you consider yourself an entrepreneur?
Not now. I’m not trying to do that because I wouldn’t put 20 hours a day into anything. And I wouldn’t go back to the engineering. The way I did it, every job was A+. I worked with such concentration and focus and I had hundreds of obscure engineering or programming things in my head. I was just real exceptional in that way. It was so intense you could not do that for very long—only when you’re young. I’m on the board of a couple of companies that you could say are start-ups, so I certainly support it, but I don’t live it. The older I get the more I like to take it easy.

It all comes down to mindset. If you don’t want to do it anymore you won’t. And maybe Energy Management, if you feel you don’t have any gas in the tank anymore. But if you had once, you can do it again, the human body was made to recharge. Just get in shape, maintain a circle of friends and get back in touch with your purpose. The ones who die early are those who retire and check out. Those who live longest stay engaged.

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Don’t Let Academia Advise You On Your Future

I find the constant worry about grades quite pathetic, as if your future was dependent on their outcome. Okay they kind of are if you are planning to build your life around the perks of the educational system. But if you’re willing to put in the effort you might consider redirecting that same effort out into the real world where the return on your energy is much higher. Begin by starting something.

Anyone can do it. If you think you can start your own entrepreneurial venture do it, if you not the self-starter type that’s fine, find someone who is, whose vision you like and work for them. Be a part of something special, something remarkable, something that makes a difference.

You really don’t need anything to get started, but our education system tricks us into thinking we need like 4 degrees and a 5 page resume before we can start something. There is no counsel that accepts and rejects ideas. The only thing stopping you is your own lack of initiative. (Well that’s not entirely true, there are bigger challenges once you get started). But taking the initiative to start is the hardest part and yet it’s really not the hard, it’s just takes a little bit of self reliance and conviction.

The education system will keep telling you need better grades to pass this assessment and get a better job, and that you have to please your superiors. It’s all just a big wankathon. It feels like that scene in the Matrix where you see the mechanistic real world and all the humans plugged into little capsules, that harvests their energy while they are preoccupied with the virtual reality called the Matrix.

In our world today, young people are preoccupied by memorizing information they won’t remember after the test is over, studying topics they don’t care about for a marginal increase in entry level salary, taking boring internships that seem like a good resume check and binge socializing in their free time to forget about how much the aforementioned activities suck.

As I’ve said before, people need to have something they actually want to do. And if you don’t your focus should be on finding that, anything else is a waste of time. Once you find that passion your learning will have a purpose and you’ll be amazed at the increased enjoyability and retention.

What I find very sad is that it’s not students’ fault. They haven’t really chosen this path. It’s the default path and no other options are presented as viable. And default paths are incredibly powerful especially when every other option is seen to be fit only for the losers of society. Interestingly, almost anyone who has been successful has realized that there’s something more out there and have decided to opt out.

I am working on startup that I hope will play a significant role in showing people that there is something more. Many people are already working on this and many people have written books about living successful, fulfilling lives and escaping the status quo. These books pump some people up enough to launch them out of the gravitational pull of the status quo and into a new realm of living. But that’s rare. Most people don’t have the self-confidence and drive to do that. But we still need to help the people who are clearly dissatisfied with their present and would like something more but they don’t know how. Well, that’s what we’re going to do. We are going to show you there’s something more, pop you on a bike with wings, (give you a can of Redbull…kidding, I hate that stuff) guide you past the point of no return and then let you fly off the edge to begin your entrepreneurial ascent, and with your new dimension of freedom you’ll look down on the seemingly two dimensional world below, watching your peers go through the same old pattern of corporate ladder climbing, hard dispassionate work and few rewards.

No really, without the dumb imagery, we’re going to help people who have big ideas, but don’t know how them happen, actually get their ideas off the ground and make them a reality.

I’m  hesitant about linking to Force For the Future, because it’s super, super pre-alpha but there’s a form on the site where you can request advice and mentorship if you’re a young person, or offer it if you’re an older more experienced professional.

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Networking Is Like Planting Seeds

picture-3Networking is like planting seeds. But the goal is foliage not a seed. Planting is easy. Consistently watering is hard.

There are many successful ways to network. But most successful systems usually consist of 1) building off your existing network and 2) exposure to high degrees of randomness to add new people to your network.

The end goal of networking is strong two way relationships that are mutually beneficial for both people. Ideally traversing both personal and work topics.

There are number of ways to increase your exposure to randomness. In this post I’ll look at the topic of effectively networking at events.

Plant The Seeds

When I go out to an event the main goal is to plant as many seeds as possible. Think of it like speed dating, you’re trying to meet people you like and set up as many dates as possible. Get to the point where you both agree you’d like to stay in touch and exchange business cards. Connection happens at a different venue.  But before moving on  if you have rapport with the person, it is a good idea to ask them if there’s anyone there who they think would be good for you to meet. Take advantage of the high concentration of people all in the same room at the same time. Try to introduce to them to someone as well. The more you give the more you receive. Great, you’ve got a large stack of business cards, but don’t celebrate yet, that was the easy part. Remember, the end goal is strong connections. Don’t be the guy who just knows a lot of people and doesn’t actually do anything. This strategy will be most effective for good people, doing good work and could benefit from a stronger network.

Water The Saplings

When you get home if you’re not too exhausted shoot off quick e-mails to the top three people. The speed of your follow through will separate you from the all the other people they gave their business cards to. Develop a boilerplate email to speed up the process but also make sure to personalize all your emails. You’ll get a much a higher response rate. If you can come up a with small request to ask of someone that can increase response rate as well. The psychology behind the ‘small ask’ is very solid. If someone goes out of their way to help you often they will unconsciously rationalize that they must like you.

Bask In Sunlight

In the ensuing 24 hours send an email to everyone you’d like to stay in touch with and add them on facebook and twitter. Pull them into your sphere of ambient awareness and show over time that your someone worth knowing. (This tip is worthless if you don’t use twitter and facebook effectively). Be persistent with people you’d really like to continue a connection with. Acknowledge that they’re busy but be adamant about keeping in touch.

After an exchange or two attempt to set up a time to meetup face to face for a more involved extended discussion. This is where the real game begins.

Cut The Weeds -> Make Room For Roses

Eventually you’ll need to start being selective about who you meet face to face with. If you’ve done a good job planting seeds there will be more people worth meeting face to face than you have time for. Take care to select the people you’d like to get to know the best. The reason you can’t meet face to face with everybody who is interesting, is because in the larger scheme of things the end goal is creative contribution, and networking is just one tool to be optimized to that end.

Grow A Garden

Always keep your eye on the big picture. This post is about optimizing networking. But the overall goal is to optimize life.

A lot of people get to the point where they don’t even need to go to events to network anymore. After cultivating enough deep connections a self sustaining flourishing garden will develop. I’d like to get to that point someday but for now consistently meeting new people at events is essential for getting where I want to be.

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Reading Is Programming Your Mind

If you think about it, you don’t remember most of what you read. So why is reading so highly valued? You may say it is esteemed because it is an enjoyable activity, but I don’t think that really captures it. Television is enjoyable yet it is frowned upon by many. A typical answer to why reading is regarded as an edifying activity would be, “when you read you learn things about the world.” But I would only be satisfied with that answer if I remembered most of what I read. I, like most of you, only remember a very small fraction of the ideas I come across. Yet I consider reading to be one of the best ways to develop intellectually and increase the chances of being successful in the world, however you chose to interpret that concept. Reading isn’t about memorizing facts but programming your mind to think in the ‘right way’.

How you think and what you think about are largely determined by the thoughts you put in your mind. Every time you read you’re filling you mind with the worldview and ideas of the author. Copying their insights about the world onto your internal map.

But I urge you to be careful because not all programming is good programming. Pay close attention to what you’re reading. The mind doesn’t care how it’s programmed. It will readily accept a hateful, self-destructive worldview just as easily as an accurate and fulfilling worldview. If you have inaccurate beliefs eventually they will catch up to you and affect your ability to operate effectively in the world. 

Every time you read you’re incrementally brainwashing yourself. Either by painting over old areas or creating new ones. I try to brainwash myself to think like people who I consider brilliant and insightful. I want my thoughts to be flavors of ideas from people I respect. Note, that even some of the most brilliant people ever to exist were full of flaws. So I just want to understand and internalize their gems of insight. Ultimately, internalizing their thoughts gives me a high quality field of concepts I can use to interpret and reconcile my experiences with the world. Insightful ideas are usually the result of making connections across subject areas, synthesizing previously disconnected ideas. 

How Does The Concept of Programming Affect What I Read?

Before you dive into reading somebody’s writing ask yourself if you really want to understand their worldview. Ask yourself, “will their worldview give me better insight into how the world works?” And furthermore, “will their worldview give me richer insight than the worldview of this other author I could read?” You cannot make the decision if a book is worth reading in a vacuum. You need to compare it to the alternatives. If you believe in optimizing in attempt to create the best possible life like I do, then you will constantly strive to read the books that will have the biggest influence on you. 

But how do you find the most influential thing to read while swimming in more information than could possibly be read in a lifetime? As Clay Shirky notes here, this is not a new problem. There has been more information than a person could read in their lifetime since the library of Alexandria. But now, due in large part to the internet, the information superhighway, the abundance of information is much more in your face. A lifetime worth of information passes directly in front of our eyes everyday. In order to navigate this crowded world we need better filters. I’ll talk more about the filters I use, which are relatively primitive and subjective. Fortunately better tools are being created as we speak.

What Do I Want From a Book?

Two things come to mind. I want knowledge that can help me create changes in my behavior that will improve my life. Or I want new stimulating ideas that give me insight into new dimensions of the world. Those two are actually closely related. Stimulating ideas either add or force me to to reconsider aspects of my working theory of the world. And since my working theory of the world must be accurate enough to produce positive effects in the real world, both of the things I want in a book, behavioral change or interesting ideas, reinforce the underlying motivation of living a more effective life. 

Ideas, insights and information are very interesting concepts to me. Below are some follow up topics I’m thinking of writing about:

What I Mean by a Working Theory of the World, Looking For Highly Processed Information, Striving For Intelligence Instead of Being Satisfied with Smarts,, Using Horizontal Scanning to Inform Book Reading, Articles Vs. Books, Reconciling the Self-Help Industry, The Reading-Writing-Discussing Feedback Loop, and How to Increase Retention of Ideas.

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